Hindsight may be better than 20/20, but if you pay attention during an interview, you might be able to head off a bad fit.
By LIZ RYAN
I got a call from my friend Candace, and she was in low spirits. She had just returned to Wisconsin after moving to Florida to take a job. She took the job, she hated it, she lasted six months, she quit, and she moved back. "I should have known, " she said. "I should have picked up on the signs during the interview. There are always signs, aren't there?"
"I'm torn, " I told her. "If I tell you 'Yes, there are always signs' then you'll feel bad. If I say 'No, sometimes things just get weird after you're hired,' then you'll think the universe is capricious and you won't feel like you have any better odds of finding the right situation the next time around."
"Forget about my feelings!" she cried. "What do you really think?"
"I think you should tell me what you saw or heard in the interview process that you now feel you should have taken more seriously," I told her. "Then we can talk about what that sign might have meant, and what you could do differently in your upcoming job search."
The Red Flag
"O.K.," said Candace. "Well, there was only one sign, really. I was applying for a marketing communications job. I've always done a lot of writing and editing, and as you know, I have a Master's degree and I consider myself a really good writer. So there was one point in the last interview where my manager indicated that he was very interested in me and he was considering making me an offer. At that point he said: ‘You're an adequate writer, and I could make you better.'"
"GAAACK!" I said."
"That was a big sign I missed, wasn't it?" Candace asked.
"Well, " I told her, "the thing is that hindsight is 20/20. Hindsight is better than 20/20—it's LASIK. Through rear-facing glasses, it seems obvious that your ex-boss had issues."
"Right, well, he turned out to be a total control-freak and a guy who's impossible to please," she said. "That's why I left. Am I a complete idiot for missing that red flag?"
A Sick Ticket
"It's so easy to overlook those bizarre statements in the frenzy of the interview process," I reassured her. "Look, Candace, I've missed every sign in the book. I hired a guy in a human resources role who said in the interview that every 10 minutes, he asks himself: 'Am I having fun in my work?' I should have asked him a few questions about that. You mean literally, every 10 minutes? Who does that? It turned out that the guy was using his company cell phone to call some offshore gambling line every 10 minutes."
O.K., back to your ex-boss. I'm an HR person and not a psychologist, but I'd call this guy a Sick Ticket. What kind of boss tells the person he's about to hire: 'You are adequate, but I could make you better?' That's totally passive-aggressive. It means that he wants to test you before hiring you, to make sure you're O.K. with being insulted. He wouldn't want to hire a person who would say something in his own defense."
So I should have said something," Candace said.
"Hindsight is LASIK," I repeated. "Now listen. Let's say that you or any other candidate had said: 'Excuse me? You think I'm an adequate writer, but you want to hire me? I'm terribly sorry. I want to work for a company that I think is outstanding and that thinks I'm outstanding, too." Then your boss would have known that that person wasn't going to put up with his leadership style, if you want to call it that."
"And when he said he could make me a better writer that a signal that he didn't just want to be my boss, but he saw himself as superior to me, too. I mean, he's not even a writer,” Candace said.
The Little Weird Thing
"Well, it's just such a hostile thing to say," I added. "Certainly if you hire someone right out of school, it's fine to say: 'We hope that I, as your manager, and lots of other people here will give you all sorts of professional training and mentoring.' That's great. But when you say to a seasoned professional, 'You're adequate and I can make you better,' it's like you're telling her that only with your expert guidance can she rise above her current state of mediocrity. That says a lot. The guy wanted someone under him who didn't have a lot of confidence. Too bad he hired you."
"Yeah, too bad for both of us," said Candace. "Well, now I know for next time."
"But next time the little weird thing in the interview, if there is one, will be different," I told her. "You don't have to react to it in the moment, and you don't even have to dope it out by yourself. After every interview, call a friend—me or someone else. Walk through the whole interview. A second pair of ears, a few hours after the fact, will help you figure out what means what and how to process all the information you've taken in. It can be a lot to digest on your own."
Deconstructing the Interview
"Especially when you've already talked yourself into the job," Candace added. "I'm going to have my red-flag radar on full alert on my next job hunt."
"The good news is that you'll never be sucked into that particular vortex again," I said. "Now that you've worked in the snake pit and survived, you have more confidence. You wouldn't sit still for a prospective manager telling you you're adequate, not in this lifetime anyway."
And this is true for all of you out there. Deconstruct the interview with someone, because if you don't see the signs, your friend might.
BusinessWeek Online, September 2007
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Monday, September 17, 2007
Empowering Your Employees
by BNET Editorial
The word “empowerment” has received a lot of bad press in the business world. Too often, it has been used as a gesture to appease discontented employees and as a means of abdicating responsibility on the part of managers: if you can get employees to adopt a sense of ownership and power, your own load is less onerous!
Empowerment, however, is a good thing. Research tells us that individuals experience increased initiative and motivation when they are empowered. This also affects their self-confidence and the level of tenacity they display when faced with setbacks. Empowered people take responsibility for making decisions and following them through to completion; they feel energized and excited by what they do; and are prepared to make a commitment to achieve mutually agreed goals. Genuinely empowered people often find themselves completely involved in their lives and work and have boundless energy for what they do.
Being able to imagine what an empowered organization would feel like and the heights of success it could achieve, may give you some sense of the amount of disempowerment that exists in modern organizational structures.
What You Need to Know
I have tried to empower members of my team, but they still seem to be dependent on being told what to do. How can I get them to re-engage with their work?
It sounds as if they are not motivated to contribute their brain- or brawn-power to your collective efforts. This means that you have to carry the load on your own and probably feel exhausted and somewhat demoralized. Try asking them what motivates and energizes them and see if you can entice them with something that interests and excites them.
I work in a technically specialized area where mistakes are just not an option. I’d like to empower my direct reports, but when I emphasize the limited margin for error that exists, they just seem to give up trying. What can I do?
You may be controlling your direct reports too much. Try giving them the resources they need to do their job and the discretion to use those in the way they feel is appropriate—within critical bounds of course. They may make a few mistakes but if they feel truly empowered, they will take responsibility for dealing with these.
I have managed to empower my team but I feel usurped and out of control. I need to call them back but I don’t know how. What can I do?
You may need to remind them that your role is to set the course and direction in the context of the organizational objectives. Praise them for their initiative; find some concrete examples of where this has made a real difference; encourage them to do more; AND ask that you be kept informed so that you can help to guide their activities. State the importance of needing to know what is happening in order to present their achievements to members of the senior executive team.
I’m not sure how to go about empowering my direct reports. What is the best way to start?
Have you ever thought of creating a coaching culture within your team? Effective delegation is a good way to lead up to empowerment. You could try using the GROW model as a framework for your coaching conversations: G-Goal (What is the SMART goal?) R-Reality (Where are you starting from?) O-Options (What ideas have you got to get you from R to G?) and W-Way (Which option will you select and what is your plan to get you there?)
What to Do
Take Responsibility
In our current business environment, much is unknown, untried, or unexpected. In an ideas-based economy, we no longer experience predictable problems, nor can we anticipate what our competitors will do based on a mutual understanding of the market or a shared technology. Ambiguity presents itself over and over again to employees who are beginning to suspect it is the “norm,” and they probably feel ill-equipped to deal with it. This is why it is so important to allow people to take responsibility for managing their way through uncertainty. By using their ingenuity, curiosity, and spontaneity, employees can meet the business challenges head-on, instead of waiting to be told what to do, how to do it, and when to do it.
Although threatening to some managers (because the gateway for good ideas is no longer governed by them) it is important to make use of every vestige of enterprise that exists in the business. To do this, managers must move from being a governor to being a channel; promoting the flow of energy and power so that people can add value and the business can benefit.
Empower People
~Create the vision. If you want to empower people, you need to harness their enthusiasm and their creativity. This means painting a meaningful picture for them of what the future could look like and how they could contribute to it. Even if it seems beyond credibility or beyond reach, try to create a sense of “we’re in this together” and invite people to add their efforts to the collective goal. If they accept your invitation, you can strengthen their commitment by allowing them to use their discretion and talent in the way that they feel is most fitting.
~Motivate. You will need to understand the values, goals, and motivations of the people who are critical to your success. By understanding their passions and motivations, you can align their energy with what you feel needs to be done in the business. If you do not know what these are, ask them to share their aspirations in the context of the business and what and how they wish to contribute in order to achieve this personal vision.
~Root out the blockages. Organizations, unwittingly, often ask for one set of behaviors while systematically encouraging another. For instance, if an organization wants to achieve its goals through team work, it is no good putting in an incentive scheme that rewards individual achievement. If an organization wants to be known for its responsiveness to customers, it is no good creating rules that prevent members of the customer service team from using their initiative. Have a look at the processes that exist in your business and see if there are any contradictory messages that are being sent out through the existing systems and processes.
~Ensure the resources are in place. If you are going to empower people, you need to make sure they are properly resourced and supported. Ask yourself what resources are needed in terms of information, knowledge and skills. You may think that members of your team or organization have sufficient internal capability to make the transition to empowerment, but perhaps they could do with some concrete encouragement to release this.
~Provide encouragement and support. Think about how you can support empowered behavior. Try to identify the existing channels of communication that allow the necessary information to be shared. Are these channels clear and free flowing or are they blocked by organizational politics or etiquette? You may need to be proactive in asking your team what provisions they would like you to make to ensure the change to empowered behavior is possible. You may also need to act as a sounding board so that concerns, frustrations, and disappointments can be fielded positively rather than leak into the social culture of the organization as negative stories.
~Eliminate fear. Most people find behavioral change threatening. They are being asked to do something that they have never done before and they are likely to feel exposed and vulnerable. They may be asking themselves what will happen if they “get it wrong.” When things fail to go according to plan, you will need to manage your response consciously. It is important not to deny the existence of problems, but do debrief them appropriately and create a sense of positive learning rather than of criticism.
~Monitor and celebrate success. When things go well and you see good examples of empowered behavior, make sure it is rewarded and celebrated. This sends a message of seriousness and encourages more of the same. Try circulating some successful stories so that they join the ongoing legend of the business. Theater and drama, effectively done, can emphasize a point well, so there is room for some imaginative celebrations and rewards.
Think about the Bigger Picture
Empowering people does not necessarily stop at the office door. Some companies empower their customers. Think of the “self-service” revolution, the helplines, and the choices that can be made on the Internet. Think of the products that have brought about the mobile technology revolution and have enabled less naturally resourced or privileged countries to compete in the world economy. Of course, some people think it has gone a step too far and that organizations are abdicating their responsibilities to customers, but if you identify with those on your market interface, you will soon root out the contradictions in your interactions.
What to Avoid
You Fear You Will Lose Control
Some managers fear losing control by empowering their teams and, therefore, keep them on a tight leash with very little discretion to make decisions when they meet new challenges. If this describes you, be careful that you are not creating a “job’s worth” environment in which team members rescind responsibility and say “It’s more than my job’s worth to use my initiative and break the rules.” Meet with your team to see if you can root out these susceptibilities by asking them to share the challenges they have encountered and the way they would have preferred to have dealt with them.
You Do Not Know When to Let Go
Knowing when to get involved and when to let go is a difficult call. Sometimes it is necessary to let people learn from their mistakes, even if you think you could have prevented them from happening. Perhaps you could intervene only in “business-critical” situations and be there to debrief and distill the learning when the time comes. Hersey and Blanchard’s situational leadership model may help you to determine what level of support and direction is needed at any time.
You Fail to Understand the Nature of Empowerment
Mistaking “empowerment” as a goal for the business or as a tool to manage behaviors is not helpful. The business goal remains the same. The tools and techniques required to reach it probably remain largely the same. “Empowerment” is a management philosophy that must imbue the organizational culture if it is to be successful. Make sure it is present from the employment contracts to the level of autonomy you give to each individual.
You See Empowerment As a Substitute for Engagement
Seeing empowerment as “an easy way out” is not what it is about. Empowerment still requires interest and involvement. Although empowerment gives people a sense of ownership and autonomy, it is not a substitute for engagement from the managerial level; rather it acts as a conduit for purposeful and fruitful conversations and actions.
The word “empowerment” has received a lot of bad press in the business world. Too often, it has been used as a gesture to appease discontented employees and as a means of abdicating responsibility on the part of managers: if you can get employees to adopt a sense of ownership and power, your own load is less onerous!
Empowerment, however, is a good thing. Research tells us that individuals experience increased initiative and motivation when they are empowered. This also affects their self-confidence and the level of tenacity they display when faced with setbacks. Empowered people take responsibility for making decisions and following them through to completion; they feel energized and excited by what they do; and are prepared to make a commitment to achieve mutually agreed goals. Genuinely empowered people often find themselves completely involved in their lives and work and have boundless energy for what they do.
Being able to imagine what an empowered organization would feel like and the heights of success it could achieve, may give you some sense of the amount of disempowerment that exists in modern organizational structures.
What You Need to Know
I have tried to empower members of my team, but they still seem to be dependent on being told what to do. How can I get them to re-engage with their work?
It sounds as if they are not motivated to contribute their brain- or brawn-power to your collective efforts. This means that you have to carry the load on your own and probably feel exhausted and somewhat demoralized. Try asking them what motivates and energizes them and see if you can entice them with something that interests and excites them.
I work in a technically specialized area where mistakes are just not an option. I’d like to empower my direct reports, but when I emphasize the limited margin for error that exists, they just seem to give up trying. What can I do?
You may be controlling your direct reports too much. Try giving them the resources they need to do their job and the discretion to use those in the way they feel is appropriate—within critical bounds of course. They may make a few mistakes but if they feel truly empowered, they will take responsibility for dealing with these.
I have managed to empower my team but I feel usurped and out of control. I need to call them back but I don’t know how. What can I do?
You may need to remind them that your role is to set the course and direction in the context of the organizational objectives. Praise them for their initiative; find some concrete examples of where this has made a real difference; encourage them to do more; AND ask that you be kept informed so that you can help to guide their activities. State the importance of needing to know what is happening in order to present their achievements to members of the senior executive team.
I’m not sure how to go about empowering my direct reports. What is the best way to start?
Have you ever thought of creating a coaching culture within your team? Effective delegation is a good way to lead up to empowerment. You could try using the GROW model as a framework for your coaching conversations: G-Goal (What is the SMART goal?) R-Reality (Where are you starting from?) O-Options (What ideas have you got to get you from R to G?) and W-Way (Which option will you select and what is your plan to get you there?)
What to Do
Take Responsibility
In our current business environment, much is unknown, untried, or unexpected. In an ideas-based economy, we no longer experience predictable problems, nor can we anticipate what our competitors will do based on a mutual understanding of the market or a shared technology. Ambiguity presents itself over and over again to employees who are beginning to suspect it is the “norm,” and they probably feel ill-equipped to deal with it. This is why it is so important to allow people to take responsibility for managing their way through uncertainty. By using their ingenuity, curiosity, and spontaneity, employees can meet the business challenges head-on, instead of waiting to be told what to do, how to do it, and when to do it.
Although threatening to some managers (because the gateway for good ideas is no longer governed by them) it is important to make use of every vestige of enterprise that exists in the business. To do this, managers must move from being a governor to being a channel; promoting the flow of energy and power so that people can add value and the business can benefit.
Empower People
~Create the vision. If you want to empower people, you need to harness their enthusiasm and their creativity. This means painting a meaningful picture for them of what the future could look like and how they could contribute to it. Even if it seems beyond credibility or beyond reach, try to create a sense of “we’re in this together” and invite people to add their efforts to the collective goal. If they accept your invitation, you can strengthen their commitment by allowing them to use their discretion and talent in the way that they feel is most fitting.
~Motivate. You will need to understand the values, goals, and motivations of the people who are critical to your success. By understanding their passions and motivations, you can align their energy with what you feel needs to be done in the business. If you do not know what these are, ask them to share their aspirations in the context of the business and what and how they wish to contribute in order to achieve this personal vision.
~Root out the blockages. Organizations, unwittingly, often ask for one set of behaviors while systematically encouraging another. For instance, if an organization wants to achieve its goals through team work, it is no good putting in an incentive scheme that rewards individual achievement. If an organization wants to be known for its responsiveness to customers, it is no good creating rules that prevent members of the customer service team from using their initiative. Have a look at the processes that exist in your business and see if there are any contradictory messages that are being sent out through the existing systems and processes.
~Ensure the resources are in place. If you are going to empower people, you need to make sure they are properly resourced and supported. Ask yourself what resources are needed in terms of information, knowledge and skills. You may think that members of your team or organization have sufficient internal capability to make the transition to empowerment, but perhaps they could do with some concrete encouragement to release this.
~Provide encouragement and support. Think about how you can support empowered behavior. Try to identify the existing channels of communication that allow the necessary information to be shared. Are these channels clear and free flowing or are they blocked by organizational politics or etiquette? You may need to be proactive in asking your team what provisions they would like you to make to ensure the change to empowered behavior is possible. You may also need to act as a sounding board so that concerns, frustrations, and disappointments can be fielded positively rather than leak into the social culture of the organization as negative stories.
~Eliminate fear. Most people find behavioral change threatening. They are being asked to do something that they have never done before and they are likely to feel exposed and vulnerable. They may be asking themselves what will happen if they “get it wrong.” When things fail to go according to plan, you will need to manage your response consciously. It is important not to deny the existence of problems, but do debrief them appropriately and create a sense of positive learning rather than of criticism.
~Monitor and celebrate success. When things go well and you see good examples of empowered behavior, make sure it is rewarded and celebrated. This sends a message of seriousness and encourages more of the same. Try circulating some successful stories so that they join the ongoing legend of the business. Theater and drama, effectively done, can emphasize a point well, so there is room for some imaginative celebrations and rewards.
Think about the Bigger Picture
Empowering people does not necessarily stop at the office door. Some companies empower their customers. Think of the “self-service” revolution, the helplines, and the choices that can be made on the Internet. Think of the products that have brought about the mobile technology revolution and have enabled less naturally resourced or privileged countries to compete in the world economy. Of course, some people think it has gone a step too far and that organizations are abdicating their responsibilities to customers, but if you identify with those on your market interface, you will soon root out the contradictions in your interactions.
What to Avoid
You Fear You Will Lose Control
Some managers fear losing control by empowering their teams and, therefore, keep them on a tight leash with very little discretion to make decisions when they meet new challenges. If this describes you, be careful that you are not creating a “job’s worth” environment in which team members rescind responsibility and say “It’s more than my job’s worth to use my initiative and break the rules.” Meet with your team to see if you can root out these susceptibilities by asking them to share the challenges they have encountered and the way they would have preferred to have dealt with them.
You Do Not Know When to Let Go
Knowing when to get involved and when to let go is a difficult call. Sometimes it is necessary to let people learn from their mistakes, even if you think you could have prevented them from happening. Perhaps you could intervene only in “business-critical” situations and be there to debrief and distill the learning when the time comes. Hersey and Blanchard’s situational leadership model may help you to determine what level of support and direction is needed at any time.
You Fail to Understand the Nature of Empowerment
Mistaking “empowerment” as a goal for the business or as a tool to manage behaviors is not helpful. The business goal remains the same. The tools and techniques required to reach it probably remain largely the same. “Empowerment” is a management philosophy that must imbue the organizational culture if it is to be successful. Make sure it is present from the employment contracts to the level of autonomy you give to each individual.
You See Empowerment As a Substitute for Engagement
Seeing empowerment as “an easy way out” is not what it is about. Empowerment still requires interest and involvement. Although empowerment gives people a sense of ownership and autonomy, it is not a substitute for engagement from the managerial level; rather it acts as a conduit for purposeful and fruitful conversations and actions.
Monday, September 10, 2007
Five Rules for Great Referrals
Here are five rules for getting referrals that generate sales:
Rule #1: Earn trust first. Before asking for a referral, you must establish in the referrer’s mind, that you can be fully trusted. To earn that trust you should ideally have all three of the following attributes (although even one is sometimes enough):
~ Prior success with a customer. If you’ve already delivered successfully for the potential referrer (or somebody whom the referrer knows well), you’ve earned the right to ask for a referral.
~ Superlative sales skills and industry knowledge. If it’s obvious that a company would normal pay to have you as a consultant, the potential referrer will be more willing to refer.
~ Being referred by somebody else. The fact that a previous referrer has already “endorsed” you creates “social proof” that you can be trusted. Referrals have a snowball effect and thus get easier over time.
Rule #2: Ask when it’s natural to ask. When you’re asking for a referral, you’re performing a “social” function rather than a purely business one. Because you’re leveraging a social connection, you need to ask in the context of the inevitable social behavior that’s part of every sales call. The time to ask is when the “feeling” of the business meeting has the flavor of a meeting between friends (or potential friends) rather than a formal interaction between the sales rep and a customer. Needless to say, you’re not likely to get a referral if you ask during a “you have ten minutes why are you here?” type of meeting. But if you’re “clicking” with the potential referrer, you should be able to sense the right time to ask.
Rule #3: Be specific about what you want. Rather than asking the potential referrer to do your marketing, briefly define the type of person, and company, that’s most likely to need what you have to offer. If your most likely prospects are people with the same job title, and the same industry as the potential referrer, this is easy. But if the referrer is an atypical customer (or somebody who’s not a customer), you’ll need to explain what you’re looking for.
Step #4: Ask for an action, not a contact. A referral is only useful for developing new business when the referrer takes some action to bring you together with a prospect. Rather than asking for a contact name, ask the referrer to call or e-mail the prospect, and then get back to you to confirm that the action has been taken. Hint: without this confirmation, you won’t know whether the referral has actually taken place, or whether it will be useful if it has.
Step #5: Follow up three times. First, contact the potential referrer within one day of your request and express gratitude for the referral. This is not only polite, but gracefully reminds the potential referrer of the commitment. Second, after you have contacted the prospect, send a thank-you e-mail to the referrer and give a brief status report. (E.g. “You were right; Fred is a smart guy.”) Third, if the referral generates a sale, send another thank-you.
Note that the rules don’t assume that referrals only come from existing customers. While existing customers do make for good referrals, they’re not the only source, and sometimes not even the best source.
By Geoffrey James
Rule #1: Earn trust first. Before asking for a referral, you must establish in the referrer’s mind, that you can be fully trusted. To earn that trust you should ideally have all three of the following attributes (although even one is sometimes enough):
~ Prior success with a customer. If you’ve already delivered successfully for the potential referrer (or somebody whom the referrer knows well), you’ve earned the right to ask for a referral.
~ Superlative sales skills and industry knowledge. If it’s obvious that a company would normal pay to have you as a consultant, the potential referrer will be more willing to refer.
~ Being referred by somebody else. The fact that a previous referrer has already “endorsed” you creates “social proof” that you can be trusted. Referrals have a snowball effect and thus get easier over time.
Rule #2: Ask when it’s natural to ask. When you’re asking for a referral, you’re performing a “social” function rather than a purely business one. Because you’re leveraging a social connection, you need to ask in the context of the inevitable social behavior that’s part of every sales call. The time to ask is when the “feeling” of the business meeting has the flavor of a meeting between friends (or potential friends) rather than a formal interaction between the sales rep and a customer. Needless to say, you’re not likely to get a referral if you ask during a “you have ten minutes why are you here?” type of meeting. But if you’re “clicking” with the potential referrer, you should be able to sense the right time to ask.
Rule #3: Be specific about what you want. Rather than asking the potential referrer to do your marketing, briefly define the type of person, and company, that’s most likely to need what you have to offer. If your most likely prospects are people with the same job title, and the same industry as the potential referrer, this is easy. But if the referrer is an atypical customer (or somebody who’s not a customer), you’ll need to explain what you’re looking for.
Step #4: Ask for an action, not a contact. A referral is only useful for developing new business when the referrer takes some action to bring you together with a prospect. Rather than asking for a contact name, ask the referrer to call or e-mail the prospect, and then get back to you to confirm that the action has been taken. Hint: without this confirmation, you won’t know whether the referral has actually taken place, or whether it will be useful if it has.
Step #5: Follow up three times. First, contact the potential referrer within one day of your request and express gratitude for the referral. This is not only polite, but gracefully reminds the potential referrer of the commitment. Second, after you have contacted the prospect, send a thank-you e-mail to the referrer and give a brief status report. (E.g. “You were right; Fred is a smart guy.”) Third, if the referral generates a sale, send another thank-you.
Note that the rules don’t assume that referrals only come from existing customers. While existing customers do make for good referrals, they’re not the only source, and sometimes not even the best source.
By Geoffrey James
Thursday, September 6, 2007
How to Fire the Employee Who's Holding You Back
Compliments of Jennifer Alsever
Donald Trump makes it look easy, but the words "you're fired" are always difficult to say. Letting an employee go is painful, and for many managers the process is fraught with sleepless nights and stomach-churning anxiety. But hanging onto the wrong people can ultimately make matters worse for you, your other employees, and your business. Here's how to break the news firmly but gently, so you can put the rest of your team back on track.
Treat Dismissal As an Option of Last Resort
Goal: Make sure the employee has been given ample opportunities to succeed.
Before you lower the axe, ask yourself whether you should really let this person go and whether you've given them sufficient opportunity to redeem themselves. Will more training or guidance help? Is the problem the worker, or the work environment? Along the way, communicate expectations clearly—in person and in writing—and provide sufficient feedback so the worker knows where he stands. Planning and documentation is key to letting someone go gracefully, and it's also the best way to avoid expensive litigation. It's tough to objectively document a worker's surly attitude, but you can address the issue in periodic employee review sessions. Keep copies of those reviews and document performance regularly, indicating how the worker was informed of your expectations, how he fell short, and whether or not he knew that continued failure would result in termination. Performance reviews are important, but no set number is needed. Just be sure to treat every worker equally and even-handedly: Don't scold the underperformer for lateness if you let another worker get away with the same transgression.
Danger! Danger! Danger!
Flattery Will Get You Nowhere.
"A lot of employers fall into the trap of trying to flatter workers [in reviews] with the hopes that problems will go away," says Lew Clark Jr., an attorney at Squire Sanders & Dempsey in Columbus, Ohio. "Workers think the boss is happy, and when they're fired that can create legal problems because they feel that the firing was discriminatory or unlawful." For more detail about the legal issues surrounding employee termination, see "Firing and the Law."
Endure Pain Now to Enjoy Benefits Later
Goal: Get over your guilt. Accept that you're doing the right thing and start preparing for the change.
Once you're sure an employee isn't working out, act on that conclusion. "The longer it takes to fire someone, the more you're in danger of losing respect from the rest of the organization," says Monique A. Dearth, a former HR manager at General Electric who's now president of Incite Strategies, a consulting firm in Atlanta, Georgia. "Firing someone is never something we want to do, but it's inevitable, and if you're a leader it's something you're going to have to get used to."
Nobody likes conflict, but while you dither, your company may lose customers, money, or productivity. Tolerating sub-par performance can also impact the morale of other employees. "Managing an underperformer drains resources," says HR consultant Donna Flagg, who spent 15 years as a human resources professional for Chanel, Barneys New York, Donna Karan, and Goldman Sachs. "Other employees will want to leave if they feel they're not being recognized while someone else is doing less and getting a break." It's better to spend your time filling an open position, she adds, than managing someone who shouldn't be in the job.
Don't forget continuity planning, and anticipate what you'll need to do to replace the employee or handle her work flow once she's gone. Will you need approval from anyone above you before firing the worker? Before asking other employees to fill in? Is there anyone you'll want to promote into the vacated position?
Hot Tip
Put the Ball in Their Court.
In many cases, when the skills, work ethic, or personality of a worker don't mesh with the rest of an organization, you may actually be doing them a favor by letting them go. In fact, they may know this as well. So before you fire someone, consider asking if they're really happy in their job, rating it on a scale of 1 to 10. Sometimes, employees will realize on their own that it's in their best interest to move on.
Set a Time, Date, and Place
Goal: Map out a strategy to make the event as painless as possible.
There's never a good time to tell people they're fired. But if you wait until 4 p.m. on Friday, the terminated employee might question why he wasted his whole week. "Monday gives them an opportunity to regroup and start networking," says Pamela Holland, COO of Brody Professional Development. Likewise, it's best to get it over early in the day, so you won't be distracted by the looming conversation. Cutting ties during lunch hour can be a good idea, because the office will be relatively empty and a fired worker can clean out his desk in private. Plan out the details carefully, considering whether company policy requires that the worker be escorted out of the office and whether he has access to critical company systems. (If so, you may want to back up files before you have the conversation.) Arrange to have the employee's final paycheck ready on the day of your termination meeting.
Give some thought to where you will hold the meeting. Don't go out to lunch or pull a worker into your office, because it can be difficult to end the conversation. Instead, pick a neutral place, such as a conference room, where you can easily walk out when you're done. Afterwards, bring in a human resources representative to handle the final details: collecting keycards, laptops, filling out paperwork, and answering questions about health insurance and accrued vacation. "They can complain if they want, but they'll be sitting there with someone who can't do anything about it," says James Wright, who handled numerous layoffs at tech firms during the dot-com bust.
Danger! Danger! Danger!
National "Daddy Got Canned" Day.
In addition to consulting your own calendar, check to see whether the planned termination will fall on a day that may have significance for others. One company didn't think through its firing plan and let a systems engineering manager go on Take Our Daughters to Work Day. Security escorted both the man and his 8-year-old daughter out the door.
Keep It Quick and Clear
Goal: Be direct and don't let ambiguity creep into the conversation.
Though you'll spend a lot of time planning and preparing, firing someone typically only takes a few minutes. Be clear and—harsh though it sounds—use the words "terminate," "let you go," or "fire."
"When people hear bad news, they go into selective listening mode," says Bob Kustka, who handled terminations at Gillette for 25 years. Kustka recalls one manager who told a worker he needed to "move him out," intending to terminate him. The worker walked away thinking he was being transferred to a different job.
You can show sympathy by starting out with "this isn't going to be easy to hear," but keep it simple and stick to the facts. Ideally you will have already had several conversations about the worker's performance, so the news shouldn't come as a surprise. Be clear—"You're being fired because you stole," or "You're being fired because you're not hitting your sales numbers"—but avoid a laundry list of the worker's personal faults. If necessary, write a script and have a checklist of items you need to cover. For example, be sure to tell them when their departure is effective.
The way you deliver the news can determine how the person reacts—and whether they'll pursue legal action. "When they feel disrespected, employees will believe the law has been violated," says Clark, the lawyer. "How the decision is communicated—doing it respectfully and preserving the employee's dignity—can make a difference." If the worker becomes angry or hostile, end the conversation and insist she promptly leave the premises. Avoid an argument by simply stating "I will not argue with you."
Close the conversation by giving the worker credit for the effort she's put forward. Tell her you're sorry this has happened, but that it's what you must do. Depending on the situation, you may also want to show support by offering to be a reference. Stand up, wish the person well, and shake hands. Then introduce the representative from the human resources department and leave the room.
What Not to Do
Common Mistakes When Firing.
Don't talk about yourself: If you say, "I know how you feel," or "I don't want to do this," you seem more worried about yourself than about them. Do not offer advice.
Don't sugarcoat: Don't offer false praise and tell them all the reasons why you think they're great. It clouds the issue and can be confusing. Pick one genuinely positive thing to say about the person, but do not go overboard.
Don't defend yourself: Even if you're told you're a lousy manager, resist the temptation to tell your side of the story. Stay calm and redirect the conversation back to the worker and your decision.
Let the Rest of Your Team Know
Goal: Lay the groundwork for a smooth transition among the workers who remain.
Tell other workers about the termination right away. Flagg says, "Any window [of time] is dangerous. Someone will hear that it happened, and the news will run like wildfire." Just as in your conversation with the fired employee, don't get into big discussions with fellow workers. Instead, explain that "John left the company on Monday" or "John no longer works here," recognizing his contribution to the company but avoiding details of why he was fired.
If you have a team, bring them together that week to talk about their concerns, discuss how to handle the departed employee's workflow, and map out your plan to fill the vacancy. If the firing was an isolated incident, you may want to assure workers that their jobs are not in danger. But if employee performance varies considerably, save your comments for private conversations tailored to each person.
Nitty Gritty
The Kindest Cut.
One way to bring compassion to the firing process is to let the person determine some aspect of how they will leave. Some managers offer the fired worker the opportunity to resign. This is usually done with high-level executives, but it may also apply in cases where there's a friendly relationship between the employee and employer.
In other situations, smaller gestures are appropriate. You might give the employee a choice about who will walk him out of the building: you or the HR rep. He should also be able to choose whether he wants to gather his personal belongings now or after hours, and whether he's ready to have the benefits conversation or wants to postpone it to another time, when he's feeling less rattled
Donald Trump makes it look easy, but the words "you're fired" are always difficult to say. Letting an employee go is painful, and for many managers the process is fraught with sleepless nights and stomach-churning anxiety. But hanging onto the wrong people can ultimately make matters worse for you, your other employees, and your business. Here's how to break the news firmly but gently, so you can put the rest of your team back on track.
Treat Dismissal As an Option of Last Resort
Goal: Make sure the employee has been given ample opportunities to succeed.
Before you lower the axe, ask yourself whether you should really let this person go and whether you've given them sufficient opportunity to redeem themselves. Will more training or guidance help? Is the problem the worker, or the work environment? Along the way, communicate expectations clearly—in person and in writing—and provide sufficient feedback so the worker knows where he stands. Planning and documentation is key to letting someone go gracefully, and it's also the best way to avoid expensive litigation. It's tough to objectively document a worker's surly attitude, but you can address the issue in periodic employee review sessions. Keep copies of those reviews and document performance regularly, indicating how the worker was informed of your expectations, how he fell short, and whether or not he knew that continued failure would result in termination. Performance reviews are important, but no set number is needed. Just be sure to treat every worker equally and even-handedly: Don't scold the underperformer for lateness if you let another worker get away with the same transgression.
Danger! Danger! Danger!
Flattery Will Get You Nowhere.
"A lot of employers fall into the trap of trying to flatter workers [in reviews] with the hopes that problems will go away," says Lew Clark Jr., an attorney at Squire Sanders & Dempsey in Columbus, Ohio. "Workers think the boss is happy, and when they're fired that can create legal problems because they feel that the firing was discriminatory or unlawful." For more detail about the legal issues surrounding employee termination, see "Firing and the Law."
Endure Pain Now to Enjoy Benefits Later
Goal: Get over your guilt. Accept that you're doing the right thing and start preparing for the change.
Once you're sure an employee isn't working out, act on that conclusion. "The longer it takes to fire someone, the more you're in danger of losing respect from the rest of the organization," says Monique A. Dearth, a former HR manager at General Electric who's now president of Incite Strategies, a consulting firm in Atlanta, Georgia. "Firing someone is never something we want to do, but it's inevitable, and if you're a leader it's something you're going to have to get used to."
Nobody likes conflict, but while you dither, your company may lose customers, money, or productivity. Tolerating sub-par performance can also impact the morale of other employees. "Managing an underperformer drains resources," says HR consultant Donna Flagg, who spent 15 years as a human resources professional for Chanel, Barneys New York, Donna Karan, and Goldman Sachs. "Other employees will want to leave if they feel they're not being recognized while someone else is doing less and getting a break." It's better to spend your time filling an open position, she adds, than managing someone who shouldn't be in the job.
Don't forget continuity planning, and anticipate what you'll need to do to replace the employee or handle her work flow once she's gone. Will you need approval from anyone above you before firing the worker? Before asking other employees to fill in? Is there anyone you'll want to promote into the vacated position?
Hot Tip
Put the Ball in Their Court.
In many cases, when the skills, work ethic, or personality of a worker don't mesh with the rest of an organization, you may actually be doing them a favor by letting them go. In fact, they may know this as well. So before you fire someone, consider asking if they're really happy in their job, rating it on a scale of 1 to 10. Sometimes, employees will realize on their own that it's in their best interest to move on.
Set a Time, Date, and Place
Goal: Map out a strategy to make the event as painless as possible.
There's never a good time to tell people they're fired. But if you wait until 4 p.m. on Friday, the terminated employee might question why he wasted his whole week. "Monday gives them an opportunity to regroup and start networking," says Pamela Holland, COO of Brody Professional Development. Likewise, it's best to get it over early in the day, so you won't be distracted by the looming conversation. Cutting ties during lunch hour can be a good idea, because the office will be relatively empty and a fired worker can clean out his desk in private. Plan out the details carefully, considering whether company policy requires that the worker be escorted out of the office and whether he has access to critical company systems. (If so, you may want to back up files before you have the conversation.) Arrange to have the employee's final paycheck ready on the day of your termination meeting.
Give some thought to where you will hold the meeting. Don't go out to lunch or pull a worker into your office, because it can be difficult to end the conversation. Instead, pick a neutral place, such as a conference room, where you can easily walk out when you're done. Afterwards, bring in a human resources representative to handle the final details: collecting keycards, laptops, filling out paperwork, and answering questions about health insurance and accrued vacation. "They can complain if they want, but they'll be sitting there with someone who can't do anything about it," says James Wright, who handled numerous layoffs at tech firms during the dot-com bust.
Danger! Danger! Danger!
National "Daddy Got Canned" Day.
In addition to consulting your own calendar, check to see whether the planned termination will fall on a day that may have significance for others. One company didn't think through its firing plan and let a systems engineering manager go on Take Our Daughters to Work Day. Security escorted both the man and his 8-year-old daughter out the door.
Keep It Quick and Clear
Goal: Be direct and don't let ambiguity creep into the conversation.
Though you'll spend a lot of time planning and preparing, firing someone typically only takes a few minutes. Be clear and—harsh though it sounds—use the words "terminate," "let you go," or "fire."
"When people hear bad news, they go into selective listening mode," says Bob Kustka, who handled terminations at Gillette for 25 years. Kustka recalls one manager who told a worker he needed to "move him out," intending to terminate him. The worker walked away thinking he was being transferred to a different job.
You can show sympathy by starting out with "this isn't going to be easy to hear," but keep it simple and stick to the facts. Ideally you will have already had several conversations about the worker's performance, so the news shouldn't come as a surprise. Be clear—"You're being fired because you stole," or "You're being fired because you're not hitting your sales numbers"—but avoid a laundry list of the worker's personal faults. If necessary, write a script and have a checklist of items you need to cover. For example, be sure to tell them when their departure is effective.
The way you deliver the news can determine how the person reacts—and whether they'll pursue legal action. "When they feel disrespected, employees will believe the law has been violated," says Clark, the lawyer. "How the decision is communicated—doing it respectfully and preserving the employee's dignity—can make a difference." If the worker becomes angry or hostile, end the conversation and insist she promptly leave the premises. Avoid an argument by simply stating "I will not argue with you."
Close the conversation by giving the worker credit for the effort she's put forward. Tell her you're sorry this has happened, but that it's what you must do. Depending on the situation, you may also want to show support by offering to be a reference. Stand up, wish the person well, and shake hands. Then introduce the representative from the human resources department and leave the room.
What Not to Do
Common Mistakes When Firing.
Don't talk about yourself: If you say, "I know how you feel," or "I don't want to do this," you seem more worried about yourself than about them. Do not offer advice.
Don't sugarcoat: Don't offer false praise and tell them all the reasons why you think they're great. It clouds the issue and can be confusing. Pick one genuinely positive thing to say about the person, but do not go overboard.
Don't defend yourself: Even if you're told you're a lousy manager, resist the temptation to tell your side of the story. Stay calm and redirect the conversation back to the worker and your decision.
Let the Rest of Your Team Know
Goal: Lay the groundwork for a smooth transition among the workers who remain.
Tell other workers about the termination right away. Flagg says, "Any window [of time] is dangerous. Someone will hear that it happened, and the news will run like wildfire." Just as in your conversation with the fired employee, don't get into big discussions with fellow workers. Instead, explain that "John left the company on Monday" or "John no longer works here," recognizing his contribution to the company but avoiding details of why he was fired.
If you have a team, bring them together that week to talk about their concerns, discuss how to handle the departed employee's workflow, and map out your plan to fill the vacancy. If the firing was an isolated incident, you may want to assure workers that their jobs are not in danger. But if employee performance varies considerably, save your comments for private conversations tailored to each person.
Nitty Gritty
The Kindest Cut.
One way to bring compassion to the firing process is to let the person determine some aspect of how they will leave. Some managers offer the fired worker the opportunity to resign. This is usually done with high-level executives, but it may also apply in cases where there's a friendly relationship between the employee and employer.
In other situations, smaller gestures are appropriate. You might give the employee a choice about who will walk him out of the building: you or the HR rep. He should also be able to choose whether he wants to gather his personal belongings now or after hours, and whether he's ready to have the benefits conversation or wants to postpone it to another time, when he's feeling less rattled
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
A Most Heartfelt Thank-you
After the trials and satisfactions of founding a new business…after the initial weeks of startup operations, I am still taken aback, in high spirits, and honored at being awarded with such high trust to place our first candidates in new jobs with a world-class company — for doing nothing more than what I am passionate about.
I've said it before; I'll say it again: I love bringing together job seekers and employers. We believe that it is people who drive business success, and it is our job to bring people together. Where else, but in the Staffing Industry, can you represent, serve and inspire talented individuals in connection with business performance as well as career progression and be showered with praise for doing something you have so much fun doing?
Many, many thanks to…
~ Adecco. the world leader in workforce solutions www.adeccousa.com.
~ Joyce Russell, President and Chief Operating Officer of Adecco USA who gave Direct Search Alliance its entrée to becoming the leader in talent acquisition for the Staffing Industry.
~ Kristy Willis, Senior Vice President, Southwest Division Adecco USA for choosing to be our first customer.
~ Peggy Hardebeck, Vice President of Operations, Southwest Division Adecco USA for her in-depth interviews and professional consideration our initial candidates.
~ MaryLou Hager, Regional Operations Manager, East Central Texas Adecco USA for making the front-line decisions to hire our initial candidates.
~ Lynda Comer, Branch Manager, Houston TX Adecco USA whose peer review allowed us to get to the next steps in the hiring process.
~ Rana Meyers, Southwest Division Administrator Adecco USA for trafficking the process end-to-end
~ Doug Arms, Chief Talent Officer Ajilon Finance, Office, Legal & Financial Solutions / Sr. Vice President - Talent Management Adecco USA for his leadership and support in our service to the Adecco family of companies.
~ Bernadette Kenny, Chief Career Officer Adecco North America for endorsing our service to Adecco.
Thanks and best wishes to…
~ Richard Embrick, our first candidate placed, who starts his career today with Adecco as Branch Manager of the Houston Galleria Staffing office – new to the Staffing Industry, his optimism about his career is inspiring.
~ Randy Burch, our second candidate placed, starting the same day, as the Branch Manager of the Houston Northwest Staffing office – his plan to develop this market for Adecco is exciting.
Thanks and welcome to…
~ Nancy (Huang) Soni, Managing Principal Direct Search Alliance for collaborating with me in this business endeavor – our shared principals, attitudes and beliefs make our company distinctive and our prospects favorable in the years ahead.
~ Kisa Brannen, Research Manager Direct Search Alliance who’s Ivy League background and quick study of the Staffing Industry showed us the way to top talent in the Houston marketplace.
I've said it before; I'll say it again: I love bringing together job seekers and employers. We believe that it is people who drive business success, and it is our job to bring people together. Where else, but in the Staffing Industry, can you represent, serve and inspire talented individuals in connection with business performance as well as career progression and be showered with praise for doing something you have so much fun doing?
Many, many thanks to…
~ Adecco. the world leader in workforce solutions www.adeccousa.com.
~ Joyce Russell, President and Chief Operating Officer of Adecco USA who gave Direct Search Alliance its entrée to becoming the leader in talent acquisition for the Staffing Industry.
~ Kristy Willis, Senior Vice President, Southwest Division Adecco USA for choosing to be our first customer.
~ Peggy Hardebeck, Vice President of Operations, Southwest Division Adecco USA for her in-depth interviews and professional consideration our initial candidates.
~ MaryLou Hager, Regional Operations Manager, East Central Texas Adecco USA for making the front-line decisions to hire our initial candidates.
~ Lynda Comer, Branch Manager, Houston TX Adecco USA whose peer review allowed us to get to the next steps in the hiring process.
~ Rana Meyers, Southwest Division Administrator Adecco USA for trafficking the process end-to-end
~ Doug Arms, Chief Talent Officer Ajilon Finance, Office, Legal & Financial Solutions / Sr. Vice President - Talent Management Adecco USA for his leadership and support in our service to the Adecco family of companies.
~ Bernadette Kenny, Chief Career Officer Adecco North America for endorsing our service to Adecco.
Thanks and best wishes to…
~ Richard Embrick, our first candidate placed, who starts his career today with Adecco as Branch Manager of the Houston Galleria Staffing office – new to the Staffing Industry, his optimism about his career is inspiring.
~ Randy Burch, our second candidate placed, starting the same day, as the Branch Manager of the Houston Northwest Staffing office – his plan to develop this market for Adecco is exciting.
Thanks and welcome to…
~ Nancy (Huang) Soni, Managing Principal Direct Search Alliance for collaborating with me in this business endeavor – our shared principals, attitudes and beliefs make our company distinctive and our prospects favorable in the years ahead.
~ Kisa Brannen, Research Manager Direct Search Alliance who’s Ivy League background and quick study of the Staffing Industry showed us the way to top talent in the Houston marketplace.
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